Should I marry this person?

i think that they are reasonable fears and that yes you probably have cold feet!! sounds like you are jus nit picking at the little things....but the one tihing that i would address with him is the education thing...try an stress to him that IF its what HE wants than tell him to go for it an u will support him and if he doesnt want to finish, since he obviously has a good career, than thats fine too!! its cute that he wants to be "good enough" for you but tell him that he already has you, your his!! he doesnt need to fight for your heart!! good luck!!! an have a great wedding!!